In the past, as a cloth diaper maker, I wondered what people wanted in a diaper, so that I could create that “perfect” diaper.  Today, I know there is no perfect diaper for everyone, but some do get pretty close.

In your opinion, what makes the perfect cloth diaper?

Update (2010/06/26): Since a couple of people have asked, here is what I consider to be the perfect diaper:

• Hidden snaps
• Not too few and not too many snaps
• Breathable
• Made of organic and/or OekoTex certified (natural) fabric
• Does not leave red marks on the baby
• Very absorbent, but not too bulky
• Not too wide or too narrow between the legs
• Does not create a “bubble” butt
• Does not create wing droop
• The fabric stays relatively soft
• Lasts more than a couple of years

I bought the Canadian-made Grasshopper Bamboo AIO diaper after reading some great online reviews.  Since my daughter outgrew most of her diapers, I was in real need of some trim AIOs for going out.  I didn’t have much time to design and make top-stitched AIO diapers at that time, so I decided to buy a couple online – one Rain Shine Designs and one Grasshopper AIO.

When I first saw this diaper, I thought it was very small and wasn’t sure it would fit my 32-lb daughter for very long.  Once I tried it on her, I was pleasantly surprised.  The diaper fit and there’s still some room to grow.  The elastic is not encased like with most other top-stitched diapers, but it doesn’t bother me.  Actually, my daughter has no red marks on her thighs because the elastic is not encased.

What I like about the diaper:

• Very trim
• High quality
• No red marks on my daughter’s thighs
• Natural fibers on the inside, so no polyester touching baby’s skin
• Sized diaper

What I do not like about the diaper:

• Not sure this diaper can fit up to 40 lbs as mentioned on the site.  I suspect the rise will be a bit short for most 40-lb toddlers.
• Not a very absorbent diaper if you have a heavy wetter.  I think heavy wetters might need a doubler in this diaper.
• The price is quite high.  I think I paid $24.95 CAD + tax and shipping for this diaper which makes it one of the most expensive diapers I’ve ever bought.

Overall rating: 4.25 out of 5

I have not been paid to write this review. The Grasshopper diaper was purchased by me.

From Linda Byerline, CEO of Happy Heinys:

We have been very saddened to hear that due to the recent earthquakes in Haiti in the Port Au Prince area, a couple of the orphanages we have worked closely with over the last fews years have been completely devastated. Through the years we have not only sent them diapers and clothing for these babies but also toys and help with food. When we work with any orphanage in any third world nation we work closely with missionaries who actually travel to the orphanages and personally bring our donations to the babies in need. We opt to work this way because sadly we have found that when attempting to donate directly the goods do not always arrive to the proper place due to the civil unrest of many of these countries.

With this recent devastating series of earthquakes there is already a lot of donations and requests for donations out there. Many are requesting items to be given to the Red Cross which is a wonderful organization and will truly help many people. Unfortunately those many orphanages are on the outskirts of town and therefore tend to receive less if any help. These orphanages are now in dire need of new/good condition used reusable diapers. By us providing them with reusable diapers we are ensuring that a baby who has just learned to sit in not placed on a toileting pot for 10-12 hours per day in order to prevent messes.

We are also going to take donations of new or good condition used baby clothing and small items. Most often these items we donate are actually brought over in suitcases so we need items that will fit in suitcases. Again, there is a lot of wonderful support that is heading out that way, people bringing food, water, medicines, and clothing but this is all going to the main population. We need to get diapers and clothing to the orphanages as quickly as possible.

If you would like to make a donation of diapers or baby clothing please send as quickly as possible to:

Happy Heinys
1529 N Cuyamaca St
El Cajon CA 92020

please mark box for donation If you would like to be so kind as to help out financially so that we can afford to send out more new diapers and new clothing as well as shipping costs and costs of extra luggage for those who are flying out to Haiti.

Please send any donations to us through paypal, please be sure to clearly mark the payment in the subject box as Donation for Orphanages in Haiti and select the Personal option for sending the money so there is no extra charges applied.

You can send funds through paypal to: lbyerline@cox.net

You can send funds using a credit card or cash. If you would like to send checks please mail them to the above address and make the check out to Happy Heinys but please make sure the subject is clearly marked as Donation for Orphanages. All funds collected will solely be used for purchasing of new items and the costs of shipping. Any left over funds will be directly donated to those in need. Thank you for helping us to carry on our mission to insure that as many babies as possible have dry cloth on their bottoms, clean clothes to wear, and food in their belly.

Cheers,
Linda Byerline CEO
MLB Industries Inc
www.happyheinys.com
www.babyfrenzy.com

My 24 month old has officially outgrown her Northern Baby diapers (version 1 with single row of snaps).  Because my daughter is quite tall, the diaper rise was getting really short and the snaps were starting to leave more noticeable marks on her hips.  As most of you probably know by now, I hate when diapers leave red marks on my little one’s body.  The only diapers that still fit her were the latest version Northern Baby diapers, the GroBaby OS diaper, Monkey Doodlez AIO, AMP AI2 diapers and a couple of PUL covers that haven’t been used much for the past year or so.  The GroBaby diaper left too many red marks, the Monkey Doodlez AIO just didn’t get clean enough and I’ve never been crazy about PUL covers.  So, I was left with Northern Baby and AMP diapers, but thanks to that polyester article (see post here), I decided my fitteds were probably the safest choice.

The problem was that I had very few fitteds that still fit my daughter.  So, I really had to get some diapers made as soon as possible since I didn’t want to switch to disposables.  Since I don’t like velcro and I’m not a huge fan of snaps, I though snappiable/pinnable diapers (as shown in the picture below) might be the best choice for me.  I decided to try the BSRB style and I think the diapers came out looking pretty good.  I don’t think I’ll make the rest of the diapers like this though.  I have something else in mind :-)

I also needed to make some wool soakers to go with the diapers.  I finally received some wool interlock and couldn’t wait to make my daughter a few stretchy soakers.  The wool interlock I have is 95% wool and 5% lycra, so there’s quite a bit of a stretch to the fabric which I really like.  I ended up making four soakers as shown in the picture below.

I must admit I like making wool soakers a lot more than diapers, especially diapers with snaps.  They’re quite a bit simpler and take a lot less time to make.  I still need to work on the pattern a little bit, but overall I’m really happy with the results.

A few months ago, I decided to buy a GroBaby cloth diaper probably because I wanted to try something new.  I must admit that now, after a few months, the diaper gets used very rarely.  I thought that at least my husband would like the diaper, but it looks like he has more trouble using it than I do.

What I do like about the GroBaby diaper:
1. The insert can be snapped in and out.
2. Can use other inserts with the shell (they will not snap in though because of the different snaps).
3. The diaper is quite trim.

What I do not like about the GroBaby diaper:
1. Elastic at the back is way too tight and leaves major marks on my daughter’s back.
2. Velcro does not stick to the laundry tabs in the wash.  When I take the diaper out of the washer, the velcro is usually stuck to the lining of the diaper and not the laundry tabs.
3. It’s not as absorbent as other diapers I’ve tried.
4. I find that I have to wash the shell after every poop.
5. Can’t make my own more absorbent snap-in inserts for the diaper because of the different snaps.

Overall Rating: 3 out of 5

When my daughter was born we had a package of Pampers Swaddlers ready, and we thought we’d be using disposable diapers until she was potty trained.  We had a couple of packages of cloth diapers, but they were too big for my daughter for the first month or two.  Also, because I didn’t know anything about modern cloth diapers, I wasn’t in a hurry to use them.  I’ve heard some horror stories from my mom about cloth diapering, so I didn’t think I’d ever want to do it.  I later found out that modern diapers are not the same as what my mom used on my sister and me when we were babies.

So, we used disposable diapers for a couple of months until I couldn’t handle the rashes anymore.  My daughter was a lot more sensitive to the chemicals in disposable diapers than my friends’ babies, and there was no cream that would prevent the rashes from coming back every few days.  The constant rashes led me to do some online research.  After reading about the chemicals in disposable diapers, I decided to give cloth diapers a try.  Even though the diapers we had weren’t amazing, I kept using them.  Thanks to more online research, I found out about bumGenius diapers and just had to try one.  Thanks to the bumGenius diaper, I actually enjoyed changing my daughter – a task that I’ve always hated before.  Also, the rashes weren’t as frequent anymore which made me want to stick with cloth diapering.  So, I decided to buy 6 more bumGenius diapers.

Northern Baby Fitted Diapers (v. 2)

Even though my daughter had fewer diaper rashes, she still had some from time to time.  One day while doing more online research on cloth diapers, I discovered that some babies can be sensitive to synthetic fibres.  I knew that the bumGenius pocket diapers had a synthetic lining, so I decided to look for diapers made with natural fibres.  The diapers I decided to purchase next included an AMP hemp fitted diaper, a Sugar Peas hemp fitted diaper and six unbleached Indian cotton prefolds.  I couldn’t believe how fast my daughter’s rashes went away and stayed away after I started using those diapers.

In the first couple of months, I also learned which detergents to use and which not to use with cloth diapers.  However, I still run into detergent issues many months later.  Whenever I use a different washer or want to try a new cloth diaper detergent, I’m running into some issues.  The one thing that’s never given my daughter rashes is soapnuts.  To find out more about the soapnuts I use, please visit the Superior Soapnuts website or the Eco Bebe Boutique.

Today, most of my daughter’s diapers have been made by me.  I’ve tried a lot of other diapers, but there was always something about each diaper that was bothering me.  It took me many months to perfect my diaper pattern, and since I’m a bit of a perfectionist, I’m still not 100% satisfied with it and probably never will.

I’ve never regretted switching to cloth diapers even when the poops got more stinky and detergents almost drove me insane.  To find out exactly why I’ve stuck with cloth diapering, please read one of my previous posts titled, “Things I Love About Cloth Diapers“, if you haven’t already done so.

If you’re wondering why I haven’t been making cloth diapers for sale anymore, you’re not the only one.  I’ve had some wonderful customers contact me asking when I’m going to start making cloth diapers for sale again.  To tell you the truth, I’m still trying to decide whether I should go back to diaper making.

Some of you might think that I gave up because I wasn’t successful enough at what I was doing.  The truth is, my diaper sales were rising quickly (mostly outside of Etsy) when I decided to take a break.  Now I’m trying to decide whether this break should be permanent.

Those of you, who know me in person, know how passionate I am about cloth diapers.  I can talk about anything related to cloth diapers for hours.  However, the truth is, I prefer to design diapers rather than to make them.  I’m always more curious about the design of a diaper than anything else.  Maybe it’s the engineer in me that always wants to know how something works.

The second reason for wanting to leave diaper making behind is that I miss the field of technology a bit.  I miss some of the challenges I was faced with on a daily basis.  I miss working with software.

And finally, the main reason why I do not want to make diapers anymore is that I want to spend more time with my daughter.  I already missed a lot of valuable time with her.  The past year has gone by in a flash and I find myself wishing I had taken more time to play or relax with her.

So these are the reasons why and I hope you understand…

Recently, I ran into a blog post I wrote on March 19, 2008 on a private blog.  Below is an excerpt from that post which I found interesting and wanted to share with you.

There are a few things I LOVE about cloth diapers….

1. I haven’t had to empty the diaper pail for sposies in a LONG time.  I must admit it was bothering me in the past that we were producing so much waste with the disposables.
2. Feels amazing to know that a huge amount of chemicals is not touching Olivia’s bum.
3. The selection is amazing… there’s like a million different cloth diaper designs out there!  I think I have at least 9 or 10 different kinds of cloth diapers.
4. Prefolds are incredibly cheap compared to sposies.  Fitteds and pocket diapers are a bit more expensive, but still, in the long run you save quite a bit of money.
5. They make diaper changing time more fun.
6. I love how my daughter’s bum is not swimming in poo.  When she’s wearing cloth diapers, her poop soaks very well into the fabric thus making clean up a lot easier.  That might be one reason why she’s not getting as many rashes when wearing cloth diapers.
7. My daughter’s been getting very few rashes with hemp and bamboo diapers.  When she was wearing disposables, she almost constantly had rashes.
   
8. Cloth diapers (when the fit is right and they’re put on properly) look more comfortable… no rubbing of plastic against the baby’s legs or tummy.  Also, I’ve noticed that when my daughter’s wearing a comfortable cloth diaper she seems to be having better naps during the day.  Not all cloth diapers are created equal though when it comes to comfort… some are less comfortable than others… but most of the ones I use look pretty comfy :-)

A lot has happened since then, but I still love cloth diapers for those reasons.  I just wanted to add a couple more.

9.  I can make my daughter perfect fitting diapers.
10.  Cloth diapers (especially with wool covers) speed up healing of diaper rashes.  With cloth diapers, my daughter rarely has diaper rashes – if she does, it’s usually thanks to my experiments with detergent :-D

Zorb(TM) is one of Wazoodle’s DiaperMaker fabrics.  According to the manufacturer, “Zorb absorbs 10x its weight in less than half a second — that’s 20x faster than cotton, bamboo or hemp. Zorb has incredible holding power too, a single layer holds up to 3 times the moisture of the best absorbing knits”.  How could that not make you want to try this new fabric?

The popularity of Zorb has been on the rise.  A lot of cloth diapering moms think it’s a solution to their night-time cloth diapering problems.  Some think it’s miracle cloth… at least until they try it.

As a lot of you know, I make Zorb doublers.  The doublers are actually made of two layers of OekoTex certified bamboo fleece and one layer of Zorb.  I think a lot of people forget about the bamboo fleece part of the doubler.  They forget that bamboo fleece itself is very absorbent (after several washes of course), that Zorb alone does not do all the hard work.

Zorb(TM) and Bamboo Fleece Doubler

Here are some pros and cons of using Zorb that I’ve experienced:

PROS:

• Quite absorbent
• Does not retain odours
• More cushy than bamboo fleece by itself
• Cheaper than bamboo, hemp and organic cotton.

CONS:

• I hate sewing with it.  I find that I’m spending more time serging Zorb doublers than bamboo fleece only doublers.  I also tend to make more mistakes when sewing with Zorb than without.
• I find the absorbency of one layer to be comparable to that of two layers of the thinner bamboo fleece.  Note that 1 layer of Zorb is approximately as thick as 2 layers of my thinner bamboo fleece.
• It’s not made of natural fibres only.  Might not bother most cloth diapering people out there, but it does bother me a little.  If you looked at my diaper stash, you’d see that most of my diapers are made of natural fibres only.

So, what do you think about Zorb?  What has been your experience with it?

2. Storing the Dirty Diapers

If you’re just trying out cloth diapers, you probably don’t want to purchase a diaper pail – a good wetbag or any other waterproof bag will do the job.  Then when you decide to buy more diapers, you can buy a diaper pail or continue using a wetbag.

Some people will put dirty diapers in a wet pail which is just a container partly filled with water.  Others will place the diapers in a wetbag once the waste has been rinsed off .  Diaper sprayers are quite popular for diaper rinsing.

3. Washing Cloth Diapers

The information on cloth diaper washing is of course the same for those who are switching to cloth diapers and those who are planning to cloth diaper from the beginning.

Probably the most important part of washing your diapers is detergent.  Always check the ingredients to make sure there are no optical brighteners, fragrances and dyes added.  Enzymes should also be avoided since they get activated when wet and start digesting organic matter, including your baby’s bum!  Tide Free & Clear or President’s Choice (PC) Ultra Free are two examples of detergents that include enzymes.  For cloth diaper safe detergents please see Diaper Jungle’s chart.  Diaper Jungle has a separate chart for front load washer which you can find here.  Please note that Nature Clean detergent in powder form is safe for cloth diapers and nowadays is available in a lot of supermarket stores.  Recently, a new detergent has been gaining popularity in the cloth diapering world.  It’s called Rockin’ Green Soap and it has been specifically made for cloth diapers.  For now the detergent is available in the US only, but don’t be surprised if you see it in Canada very soon.

Once you think you have the right detergent, here are the steps most people follow:

(1) Cold rinse (or short cold wash with no detergent).

(2) Hot wash with 1/4 – 1/2 of recommended detergent followed by a cold rinse.  It might be a good idea to start with less detergent and if that doesn’t get your diapers clean, add a little bit more.

(3) Smell the diapers, if they smell clean, run another rinse.  If they do not smell clean, run another wash cycle with some detergent.

(4) Tumble or line dry.  Please note that the sun is great for bleaching poop stains.

Remember not to wash too many diapers at once, especially if you have a front loader.  We recently purchased a front load washer and after a couple of unsuccessful washes, I finally figured out that I need to set the machine on a “whites” wash with a pre-wash (it’s always cold).  I also set the water on hot,  the soil level on “heavy” and I choose “extra rinse”.  This is what works for me, but it might not work for everyone.  After a few washes, you’ll find out what works best for you.

4. Detergent Build-Up

Once in a while, something happens and you end up with stinky diapers.  Sometimes you’ll get stinky diapers because they haven’t been washed properly, but a lot of the time the reason for stinky diapers is detergent build-up.

To remove detergent build-up, wash the diapers on hot (without detergent) a couple of times.  Keep washing until you see no more bubbles.  I think I’ve only had to do two hot washes at the most.